I was infatuated with him immediately and the symphony of warning bells was drowned out by an inundation of emotions I had never felt before. I knew I couldn’t trust him and I knew the relationship would end in disaster.I didn’t want to admit it though, and planted my feet firmly in denial-ville.Looking back, it’s frustrating to think how much time, energy, and hurt I would have spared myself had I listened to my instincts. Eric and I noticed that the girls who ask us super long winded questions–padding what could be a simple one sentence questions with a million examples and justifications–are the least likely to take the advice we offer and will instead counter with an equally long-winded rebuttal to everything we have to say (that is, if what we say isn’t what they want to hear, which it probably won’t be since what they want to hear is: “The fact that he never texts you back or won’t call you his girlfriend means nothing, this guy is in love with you and you should expect a diamond ring on your finger any day now! The reason we know these girls won’t listen is because all they’re hearing is the clatter of justifications instead of the sound guidance of their gut.They say advice is what you ask for when you already know the answer but wish you didn’t and they are so right!Can you trust your gut to tell you who is a good choice to marry?Is cohabitation a good way to assess if a true love will be likely to make a good mate?
How can you tell if the person you are currently drawn to, dating or living with is The One True Love with whom you should take the giant leap from the comfortably familiar world of singleness or partnership into the full commitment of marriage?
The way to get in touch with it is to listen to what it’s telling you.
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Your gut is a powerful tool in life and especially in relationships.
And as women, we have the upper hand and have been given the gift of “women’s intuition.” It’s something we all possess and it can be fine tuned to work optimally.